Guys, what does this Vietnamese guy have to do to satisfy a Japanese lady? (not sex, btw)

Do Japanese ladies ever consider Vietnamese men compatible mates?

Help help help!!!

...are you pursuing her or in a relationship?

Pursuing her...yes.!

Here's the story...I always thought that Japanese ladies are hard to approach unless you're white or anothe Japanese. After completed one semester in my design graphics class, I met her again one time, and she approached me to start a converstation...anyway, that changed my mind. Now, Ican't stop thinking about her...

She's a decent person...not super hot or anything, but I really love her voice, and the way she speaks.


What can I do???

you could probably wank in front of her. that will certianly get her attention mate. goodluck!!

just treat her as you normally would to any other girl.

gambate ne!

Why are you so afraid all of a sudden?

Make a move now before she changes her mind.



Viet Sake is a Cool Combination

*nods*

I never understoof why people asks these sort of questions.
It doesn't matter whether you're Vietnamese, Chinese, American or whatever. We don't know whether that particular girl likes Vietnamese guys or not - nor should it matter.

Just be nice and friendly towards her. Who cares about ethnicity or race?
When you point out that you're Vietnamese etc, it sounds like you feel somewhat inferior or nervous about who you are. I say just go up to her and be nice! Be forward looking, brave and don't bother yourself with silly ideas such as "Oh man, what if she doesn't like Vietnamese guys?!"

^I agree with that.

mayb u can help me on how to woo a viet gal online
I need ur help
shes bron in sweden btw

so i duno if me~singaporean stand a chance


are viet gals shy btw?

Talk to her and try to setup some activity you and her can do together.

invite her to dinner and take her to a pho restuarant

these threads are getting pathetic. not all japanese girls have a genetic code in which theyre all the same. seriously, these threads should be closed since they are the epitome of stupidity.

Okay here dude, this is a tricky one man. Like seriously, it might be impossible for you to grasp this concept.

RACE DOESN'T PLAY A fu-kING THING. She's a girl, deal with it. What the hell does it have to do with whether or not she's Japanese?

Grow some balls and ask her out to a sushi restaurant

because hes a japanophile who wants a japanese wife and wants his kids to inherit the samurai gene and he wants his last name to be yamanaka and so on.

^lol
*clap clap clap*

I have to show this to my friend Hitori. This whole forum actually, she'd find it very amusing. Or offensive... *scratches head*

$$$$$$

Are you being giant f@g for a reason? Maybe he doesn't yet understand inter-personal relations and is simply asking for some help and or encouragement.

From what this guy says, its clearly retarded.

What must a man do to satisfy a Japanese lady? So all Japanese ladies have some genetic code written into them where theyre satisfied by the same thing right gomeny?

Do Japanese ladies EVER consider Vietnamese men compatible mates? i suppose Japanese women also have genetic codes in which theyre compatible mates are seperated by ethnicity.





Okay here dude, this is a tricky one man. Like seriously, it might be impossible for you to grasp this concept.

RACE DOESN'T PLAY A fu-kING THING. She's a girl, deal with it. What the hell does it have to do with whether or not she's Japanese?

splur sums it up nicely ^

I don't think the girl being Japanese makes the circumstance any different from other girls. Just be yourself!

Is there a Japanese Race? He might want to know if there are certain cultural aspects he should know before chatting with the girl. God forbid he wanted some words of encouragement, but I guess it's just better to $hit on him instead.

im guessing hes in America. yes, if you do not take the japanese girl to sushi restaurant, she will cut you with her wicked samurai sword than commit hara-kiri. but thats after you guys bukkake.

edit: btw thread starter didnt mention any cultural aspects, he just asked how must i please japanese girls.

just act like yourself

to the thread starter: just be yourself! if you act all strange, shell be turned off. good luck.

Yep, the really only good thing you can do is act yourself. Good luck.

haha yea just be yourself =D hrm...we don't really care where you're from....of course most girls are different. but it doesn't hurt to try ^^

Thank you everyone for giving me advices...To be honest, I am very new to this love stuffs and I am not offended by your comments.

About the Japanese girl, she's an amazing girl, soft-spoken, and quiet. I did ask her out, we agreed on a date, then she cancelled the date a day before to go out with another Japanese guy. I guess it's time for me to move on.

Also, when I was seeing her, I was always afraid, nervous, and forgot what I was supposed to say to her. (maybe I'm not being myself?) Also, I am not a Japanophile. I just love the Japanese people and their culture. I know that people are people, we're all the same but then I also want to be sensitive to their cultures too. Anyway, I guess there's nothing much I can do to get that girl now. Last time I called her, she didn't pick up. Then I txt-msged her, she said that she has a boyfriend now.

Thanks everyone.

Bad luck.

Will you still be looking for Japanese girls in particular?

ouch.

oh... how sad...

it's okay, man. don't be sad.

i've been in to worse things. at least you tried.

good luck on your life then...

Owned.

dont worry, im sure you will find another japanese girlfriend soon

There be urself
All the best on ya next catch

Hehehe...Thanks, I'm glad that I got over this quickly.

So you wanna know if you stand a chance w/ that Viet girl? Hmm...Welcome to my boat. :P

Yesterday, I was checking out girls at my college btw, and sheesh, I think I'm addicted to Japanese girls. I have to say they are pretty. Wish me luck. I'll try not to be a wuss this time.

I'll probably be learning Japanese soon. Maybe it's the language barrier that prevented me from an inter-cultural relationship.

having a girlfriend based on her ethnicity is one of the most retarded things ive ever heard. i pity the future japanese girlfriends you have since you chose to look at their ETHNICITY before anything else.. fu-ked up.

agreed.

i know tons of people who only mess with girls based on ethnicity. quite sad really.

this reminds me of a situation yesterday in which a really pretty vietnamese girl was crashing my general chem class and asked me a question about the class....

hope she makes it in the class

as for this thread, at least it's not a white guy asking for advice this time. but do you think an asian guy (vietnamese guy for example) hitting on a "different" asian girl (japanese girl) is just as bad? what i wonder though is why most guys in the west get attracted to japanese women....i've seen really pretty girls who come from other difference parts of asia

I don't know.. Japanese girls are harder to talk to & very tricky. There was this japanese foreign exchange student who came to my school. My god was she smoking hotttt. Anyways, all the guys wanted to get with her.. and I would always see her in the hallway but never had the guts to talk to her! Anyways, I sorta became friends with one of her friend which was another exchange student and that's how I got to know the japanese girl. Stupid me.. that took almost 6 months to do, and by the time I got to know her.. she had to go back to Japan.

Ask her to teach you japanese?

stop philing japanese girls scum

It is good to be optimistic but sometimes ethnicity really does matter. people try to not to pay too much attention on race but we all subconsciously judges on other people by their race and ethnicity to some extent....its sad but its true.

Man, I don't know what to say...If I was a Japanese guy, it woun't be a hassle but since I've come from a different culture, of course I have to be sensitive. I mean, I don't want to act like a diickhead and get a negative impression from her.

Anyway, most people here misjudged me so I really don't know what to say...

I know, but by being pessimistic about it and worrying about being "not good enough", we'd be making it an even bigger problem.
Act nonchalant about ethnicity...We shouldn't be chasing girls/guys based on their ethnicity anyway. I hope the guy who started this thread didn't just like the girl because she was Japanese.

damn man....first come first serve i guess...

maybe if you were swifter....but plenty of fish in the sea right?

does she speak with an accent and which state is this?

never fall in love with exchange students and chronic alcoholics.

Just show her your penis. I'm pretty she'll go for you after that.

I am Japanese. one of a few.

don' worry about the negative comments given to you.
may be they have or had isses themselves.

I don't see any problem giving preference to certain ethinicity in personal relationship.

As Japanese, I don't see the issue in your preference to Japanese girl.
it's your personal preference. none of our business.

as some advised you, just be true to yourself.
don't forget to always be clean, neat,polite and wear decent clothes.