In my 22 years experience on this earth I have know more than a handful of Viet girls who have openly said Viet guys are a$$. What must we do to make our woman love us or we should forget about this handful of Viet ladies?

Hehe i would say forget them.. why carry more burden on your shoulder/thought trying to change their views.

Don't care and do nothing because I am Viet and an @$$. They are not the only girls in this world

Theres bigger and better fish in the sea

i dont know why, that weird
since viet guy this generation usually are quite good
i never met any Vietgirl that said viet guys are a$$ though
where do you live anyway?[

It doesn't matter a lot of women run off and fu-k assholes.

Yep very true and we nice guy don't get fu*k lol

Yah, it's better to be an @$$ than a nice guy. Nice guys just get pushed around and used. Thought I've been nice guy too much and regretted my actions in the past.

I believe that fat girls, ugly girls and stupid girls or fat, ugly and stupid girls shouldn't be comlaining at all .

There is no question that there are Vietnamese guys who are @ssholes, but at the risk of stating the obvious, not every Viet guy is an @sshole. In fact, there are quite a few who are not. Frankly, it is a given that those women who are attractive - these women are also magnets for @ssholes and losers. It's an occupational hazard.

They can complain but they have to pay for the lovin'

guys be cool

So uh what have Vietnamese females ever done for Vietnam compared to Vietnamese males?

People who contributed nothing towards Vietnam other than human trafficking and ruining Vietnam's reputation shouldn't complain about those who fought, died, or sweat for Vietnam.

Racist and sexist, too? Byron, there is no end to your skills set.

vietnamese women actually sacrafice alot for vietnam buddy.

But I just said that people who don't contribute as much as another group shouldn't complain about that other group?

If you think that is sexist then surely you must think Vietamese women who think Vietnamese guys are @$$ are sexist as well? Double standards?



Very small fraction to that of Vietnamese men.

Nha_Le, you made this thread because you're frustrated with the remarks of asian_lisa in the other thread? ehh, you start to act like her, make some judgement about viet girls by some obviously white washed viet american girls.

btw, I can't believe I stood defend you Viet guys all the way from lisa's remarks in the other thread and now you make this thread!!!

Yeah, but it matters only if the guy bothers to remember that Vietnamese women have fought and sacrificed for Vietnam alongside Vietnamese men from the beginning of Vietnamese history. And only if he uses his brains to figure out who gives birth to Vietnamese men.



You are full of it. I am sure that if you were in charge of writing Vietnamese history, the contribution of ethnic minorities and women would fall into some black hole in your memory banks.

Am I full of it? You're telling me that the majority of Vietnamese fighters throughout history and contributers aren't men? Prove it.

see? Viet males and females in Vietnam think highly of each other, unlike those in america. First, that b!tch asian_lisa, now you.

How did your fu-king argument morph from "Vietnamese women made no contributions" to "the majority of Vietnamese fighters are men"? If the percentage is 51%, then the contributions of women don't count, because they are only 49%? Aside from that, I never said that the majority of Vietnamese fighters are women, so why should I prove something I didn't say, @sshole? And who do you think gave birth and raised these Vietnamese fighting men, @$$hole?

CAN YOU PLEASE STOP THIS?

@Nha_Le: Good job for making a flaming thread.

I don't think Nha Le intended to do that. Whether a thread turns into a flaming thread depends on who participates.

Thing is it's not even close to 51% to 49%. If you list the contributions in Vietnamese history, you will see the overwhelming majority of them are men.

And I don't see what this "women gave birth to men crap" argument has to do with anything? All females of any species can give birth, just because Vietnamese women can give birth is nothing signifcant. And do you believe that Vietnamese women give birth or raise a family without Vietnamese men out there working?

I'm not saying that Vietnamese women should be enslaved to Vietnamese men or anything, I'm just saying that isn't right for Vietamese women to complain when they themselves don't put as much on the line as Vietnamese men.

How would you like it if you were working on a school project with a partner and you did 90% of the work and he did 10%. Then he goes out and complains about you? Would you accept this?

How come you never complained about Vietnamese women bashing the men and instead actually justify what they are saying but when I do the same you call it sexism?

get out of here Byron. Can you name any country with women participate in military more than men?

I don't know anything about Viet girls from Vietnam. Asian_Lisa remarks are not just from her alone.
I have seen remarks from a girl here who wish she were never born an Asian. This problem must somehow be addressed if we are to keep Vietnamese culture intact in the US. When I was in high school this Vietnamese dude made a remark in class while we were studying history of Buddhism. He thinks it was stupid how his parent still go to the temple in the US.


If you don’t fix a leak when it is small you will regret it because it will no go away by itself.

Nope, but then again the women of those countries don't complain and bash their own men, so it's all good for them.

And this is not your forum, so you shouldn't tell others to leave.

yea and you are just like that Lisa, making judgement from a few girls who are obviously white washed. We Viet girls in Vietnam (of course with a population MUCH LARGER than those in usa) don't think that way

btw, I don't believe all viet american girls are like that b!tch Lisa.

These Viet girls meet and date bad Viet guys and like to generalize the evert Viet guy as being bad and mean.

Look I was an officer in a VSA organization at my college a couple years ago and so I tried to recruit all the Vietnameses. Of all the Viet I spoke to only a fraction would join. Maybe this experience piss me off.

1. Viet women in Vietnam complain about Viet men? NO, the only Viet girl I've seen making bad remarks about Viet guys is a girl named asian_lisa. She obviously does not represent the majority of Viet girls, especially those in Vietnam.

2. ok my fault. but I hate to see flames between viet males and females. it is so ridiculous.

I will admit Vietnamese men have faults but some of these females believe they are perfect and that it is only the men that need to change, I however believe both sexes need to change their attitudes and behaviours instead of counting on the other to change and conform to their standards.

That's because Vetnamese history has been written by men, chump


So, who gave birth birth to you, @$$hole? A dog? A b!tch? And I take it that you don't owe $hit to your mother.


And what makes you think that Vietnamese women don't work? Don't you think that Vietnamese rural families can afford to have their women NOT working?


That's progress


They do. Their contributions are just minimized, unrecognized and ignored.


That's a different, unrelated matter altogether. I won't bore you with the fact that doing 90% of the group work is exactly what I used to do while I was at the university.


I did say that the generalization that Vietnamese men are @ssholes is an over-generalization, and I believe that my response was adequate. I see no need to overreact.

So what do we do even if we have a fraction of Vietnamese who want nothing do with our culture in the US?

yep the viet girl from vietnam sure love us viet guys....especially at the message parlor

yea some, some b!tch, and there are b!tches in every race. but don't generalize all viet girls in general.

People making stupid remarks about other people is something that we, as the human race, will be stuck until the end of time - which will happen sooner rather than later at the rate this global warming is going on. I have listened to white women making nasty, no holds barred remarks about white men. Ditto for African American, Hispanic, Italian, Jewish, etc. - Women will be complaining about men and playing the blame game until the end of time, and vice-versa. The only winners are those who chose not to participate in this kind of contest. I choose not to participate in this contest and in fact, I don't even want to be a spectator.

It will spread and grow if you dont address it though.

"Người yêu ơi có biết anh nhớ em nhiều lắm"

Why this thread got to turn to crap so quickly.
People are too sensitive.

Nopes, they're just bored and have nothing else to discuss. Some topic I love to avoid: religions, m vs. f... etc Those topics will give your headache.

Sometimes, strong disagreements need to be aired and strong opinions need to be exchanged to get at the truth. It's ugly at times, but it's necessary.

I know I never wanted this thread to go this way. I just want to bring out a problem and find a way stop it.

It saddens me to see Vietnamese youth are not following the footsteps of the first generation.
Such as from where I lived I noticed less and less Viet youth wanting to go to college.

same old trend for asian men all the time

your women complain about you then you panic like silly hoes instead of move on to better things

Oh well, everyone is different. Let them be and be slackers and face the consequences. We need poor people to have rich people. That's the sad truth.

Vietnamese people are generally apathetic to civic duties and they do not believe that their government can help them that much due to bad experiences in Vietnam. As they come to Western countries, they have to work, study, and survive, leaving them not enough time to participate in anything else. As they become more prosperous and assimilate to the lifestyles of Western countries, they will be willing to participate in extracurricular activities that help the communities.

Not me.

Maybe the OP has no other better things to move onto?

Ha, ha, ha, the joke is on us: Americans tend to be pretty apathetic. In fact, most Americans are AWFUL apathetic It's only a small minority that is active, but they make all the difference - same with us, I guess

Don't worry, LVF. I'll save you.

When the husbands went to the battle, the wives stayed home to take care of the elders and children, worked twice as hard, replacing the absent husbands, to put food on the table. If you fail to see as a contribution for the country then you can only see one side of the story.

Men should respect the women (mother) who gave him life and respect the women(wives) who bear his child. End of story.