who bellieves that we all have a perfect match out in the world somewere

I don't believe my true love is an indian woman though.

i tink you are right..... but what if you didnt get the chance to meet them and you got married to someone else... then wat wud you do.... would u leave ur husband to be with your soulmate??????????????



dat doesnt matter...

I dont know what i would doo i guess your husband is meant to be your soulmate but we live in a colective societin in india where we consentrate on the feelings and thoughts of people around us, i dont know if i could hurt them... but i couldnt be with a man i didnt love...


Have you met her???

u believe wat you believe... and that is good... ur shoould stick up for wat you believe in.... but sometimes you cant have what you want and that hurts.... so sometimes in life you will have to make scarifices for the people you love... even if it makes you unhappy.....

You only live once i know this may sound like a selfish attitude but if your so called soulmate loves you too could you bear to hurt them too...

i think there's a soulmate out their for everyone, but not everyone can be with their soulmate.

There is one perfect one....but how to we assure perfectness when everything is dynamic.

The opportunty is only good during the life time of an opportunity ....therefore you might never catch the opportunty to meet the perfect one.

I don't believe in love. Only personal compatibility and physical attraction (usually attributed to cultural definitions of "beauty").

I want to believe it. But, I haven't found him yet.

I agree with you on that. Love doesnt matter; so long as one has progeny and at least 1 male child to secure the family name.

Love sucks....

dont belive in true love

same here, though obviously replace "him" with "her" .

I've gotten pretty pessimistic over the years whether it exists.

omg u guys! it does exist......u just have to wait for it. good things come to those who wait

If you think about it, it's really not rational at all. Humans are nothing more than animals when it comes to sex. We want to find the most compatible male/female (i.e. who's the hottest), we go through the dull ceremony of marriage to instill some sense of meaning in it all, and finally we do what we desired to do all along: get laid. This, of course, leads to the reproduction of offspring - the primary point of our existence.

We only differ from animals in our need to make a big deal out of everything. We have to make up the feeling of "love" and go through the process of marriage to hide the fact that the whole point of it is to get laid and have babies. Animals just get right to shagging, nothing fancy.

yeh i guess we cant judge it until we experiance it (if it exist) but dont recon it exist cus i havent seen any proof of it



interesting theory

but it still doesnt explain why ppl would willing mate with someone of a infirior genetic structure

ppl would mate to make their offsping the best chance of surviving inthe world like thats (my theory) why guys are atracted to chicks with t!t$ cus when she beastfeeds it would give the offsping more nuitriance then some of a smaller beast size and chick s like built guys cus they will pass thooes carecteristics to the offsping

srry bout the spelling mistakes

Actually, guys like girls with big t!t$ because they simply prefer that in a woman. I don't think I've EVER heard of anyone marrying a well-endowed woman for the sake of breastfeeding the children more efficiently. Besides, in some places in South America, guys actually don't look for bustiness in a woman. There, female beauty is more emphasized on having a bigger @$$, which I'm sure has no relevance with breastfeeding. It's all just a matter of culture. Different places have different standards of beauty, and all people, at the heart of it all, want to mate with someone who fits with that standard of beauty.

I don't know about women, but I'm willing to bet that they don't give a $hit about their children being well-built. It's just their desire to have a "big strong man to cradle her in his arms".

big @ss ---- is equiva;lent to producing more babies or having easy delivery.

"Actually, guys like girls with big t!t$ because they simply prefer that in a woman. I don't think I've EVER heard of anyone marrying a well-endowed woman for the sake of breastfeeding the children more efficiently."

they perfer that in a woman because its thier natural instinct to do it (still its just my theory)

"I don't know about women, but I'm willing to bet that they don't give a $hit about their children being well-built. It's just their desire to have a "big strong man to cradle her in his arms"."

i know thats not true its just like all the animal kingdoms the female (or males) look for the fitest one of their specices so that their offsping have a greater chance for survival in the next generation its all in your instincts, its survival of the fittest besides i saw it in a documentry that women see stronger men as an image of their future child its in their instincts

I agree with you i think thsi is true

lol, quite the optimist

Personally, I've given up on finding a soulmate, I'll believe it's real when I experience it.

dont look for her...let her find u

lol, no worries there, I've never thought about looking, too much effort

if there is a soulm8 4 u... u will find him in the end...

if there is a soulmate for everyone then why do some ppl die alone

oh and ent their like an odd number of men and women in the world bus is this evened otu by gays ar people who have more than 1 wife/husband.... i still bellieve in soulmates but what happens if everyone cant find their soulmate.

IM confused

^what?
anyway's i dont belive in soulmates cus there isnt soulmate for everyone cus some ppl will never find one and its fate or destiny to find one then why fate and destiny exclude certain ppl who will never have one just because, also there's no way to prove it
and i would define true love as something that lasts forever and i havent seen or experienced it so i dont think that that exist either

well what would happen if your soul mate was an 80 year old or if they die before you meet maybe that could be a reason as to why we dont meet our soul mates

exactly its not fate or destiny to find your soulmate, ppl just by chance find ppl who they have something in common with and some ppl by chance dont