At the beginning of the school year I couldn't handle my boyfriend anymore. He was acting immature and had LITTLE experience. Lately he has been over analyzing everything I say, critizing me for everything, and saying the most "inappropriate" things. Example: I was flirting with some guy, and I was like hey can I have your coat for a little bit, I'm really cold. My ex said something along the lines of, you already have a jacket. I was like yes but this jacket is cold. Gah, it made the situation so awkward. (He is reallllllly inexperienced when it comes to girls) He also is starting to put everything on me. He's blaming things on me, and it's getting old really fast. If he messed up he should be responsible for his own actions right?

Anyways so I'm getting really annoyed with him asking me why I'm doing certain things. I'm not three. I don't need someone to critize me, or tell me what to do and what not to do.

Help me? What should I say? What can I do?

just be honest, mature and resourceful...if a situate bother you in the past, bring this up againest him...dont hurt his feelings while he is hurting your game, hes just inexperienced....

Kill him.

I swear, I was ready to rip his head off yesterday. It was wayy annoying getting a text message asking me what I was doing last night at 8. I'm not his freaking property. Get over it. Damn.

stop hanging around him?

That's kinda hard. Because he is a follower..
See the deal is his friend, is friends with me, and he is going out with my bestfriend.

His friend doesn't like him, infact no one really does in our circle of friends, but he is too stupid to figure that out..and keeps tagging along. He is really annoying because of his clingyness. Trust me, it gets to the point where he is copying everything his "friend" does. GAHHH!

you just used the word "friend" 6 times in the 4 lines of text without mentioning a single name.....

you probably can understand my confusion

I'd suggest that you make plans without him for both your circle of friends (who, from what i gathered, don't like him) and to give your ex an opportunity to find some friends who actually like him

Then tell the truth.

Okay sorry it didn't make sense lol. I was trying to type without using names.

Yeah, we've been trying to do that, but in the end someone slips up and says oh I'll see you Saturday, and then he invites himself...it's annoying.

I swear he needs to take a class for people with problems of social skills. Gah, it's annoying. He doesn't really have many friends. Like, he isn't really outgoing. So when we leave him, he probably will end up being alone. Sad.



Okay, you've gotta understand that if I were to tell him the truth the first thing he would say is, what do you mean by that? I don't understand.

Gah, it's annoying. I can't even START to explain everything he does that makes him seem like a little kid. He's just getting on my nerves and he is wayy too stupid to handle the truth, because he would never understand.

Have you told him to f*ck off? That might work.

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just let him grow out of it, you cant blame him if hes not doin it on purpose right

ive had a clingy frnd b4 but fortunate for me he was hilarious

just ignore his stupid antics, or if u really wanna try something, act dumber dan he is, that can annoy him back, i'm pro at dat lol

Lol

And when he stops doing those annoying things, you'll complain why he doesn't care for you like the way he did in the past. You cannot have every girl.

In order to have a stable and lasting relationship, one must learn t compromise and sacrifice. If what you did makes him uncomfortable, then don't do those stuffs anymore. And in return, you should ask the same time for him.

I got a mate who hates cucumber. Even though I like eat cucumber I will never call cucumbers which we're out for dinner. That's just respect.

This is just fu-kING GOLDEN! Her ex-boyfriend has ONEitis over her. Watch the drama unfold kids.

restraining order

Why'd you bother dating him in the first place? He sounds like a loser.

This was just what I though when I first read this thread.

cut his f ucking d!ck off.
$hit if ne guy did that to me..b!tch better f ucking watch it

First of all,stop talkin about me on the internet, 2nd ,give me another chance I could change- I LOVE U!

I take it you were kidding. I almost believed you.



That's sad. What kind of friends are you all? I agree with SkylineC83. Your friends and you will have to be mature about it and just make plans without him. It may have to be a gradual change if you don't plan on hurting his feelings. However, if you are that annoyed, you might as well just let him know and do it in a mature way without rubbing it in his face.

I've had to deal with annoying people who followed me around before but that was back in high school. I just gradually exclude them from my plans and eventually, they think it's because we grew apart and they haven't been badly scarred.

[quote name='MyDreams84' date='Nov 21 2006, 06:02 PM' post='2503398']
I take it you were kidding. I almost believed you.
Believe me baby, I'll treat u right, "kidding," please! Gangstaz get lonely 2-so whats up

why would you be flirting in front of your ex? That seems...cruel.

My X just called me last night...arrg

I don't know why. I thought I saw something, but I noticed real quick that he was wayy immature.



Aww, sorry. I'll try and be better about that ;]



Well then I never really have a chance to flirt. He follows me around EVERYWHERE! It's like he doesn't have a life.



See the thing is, I don't care about him anymore, and I don't understand why he doesn't get thtat I just DON'T want him in my life anymore. Gah. I'm not going to complain about him NOT caring for me, because I don't want him to even be in my life anymore. Harsh I know, but that's how I honestly feel.

Looks can be deceiving sometimes right?
Maybe you fall for his physical attraction first not his personality.
This is why you realise that you lost it after knowing him for some time.



Sounds more like a dog to me than a real boyfriend.
Puppy dog that wants its mommy.



Well you see some guys just don't get it. Sometimes the best way to tell a guy is to tell him directly. Just say the words because I can see this boyfriend of yours is really presistant.
So what you need to do is definately kick him at the crotch.
Make sense?


j/k

Well if you can't tolerate him anymore you must talk to him one day. Make sure both of you are alone together and tell him how you feel.
If he gets it then he will leave you alone.
If he starts protesting or get physical THEN you can kick his crotch and start running away.

maybe he is heartbroken for losing you. but that doesnt explain his behaviour though!
by acting like that , he is making things worse and making you disgust him even more!
he does sound immature. stop responding to his talks, messages, calls or whatever. just IGNORE the guy completely! also, dont provoke him-like flirting in front of him. because the only message he'll get from that is that you are doing that to show him that you can date other guys etc... reverse psychology stuff!

Why are you friends with your ex is what I don't understand. I guess it can be done...but ewww, whhhyy?? Just let him go. I agree with just ignoring him, maybe he'll catch on.

He sounds like a needy person who doesn't have too many options.